Creating a Happy Home

Spring is a time of renewal and regeneration.  Continuous renewal and growth makes for happy relationships and a happy home. When we let go of the past, and positively connect with our surroundings, our inner strengths, and our true selves, we become more able to cooperate and create anew in a way that benefits all. 

At times this renewal project can be a challenge.  It requires cooperation, communication, and letting go of that which no longer serves us. Sometimes we do not always agree on what to do.  Listen to our teleconference for tips on overcoming these challenges.  We looked at the challenge from three perspectives:   Our stuff, our relationships, our culture.

Samantha Shields, a home energy specialist, gave tips on how to connect with the physical aspects of our home to increase positive energy and harmony.

Dr. Alice Vlietstra shared how to tap into your inner character strengths to help better connect with our true selves so that we can harmoniously work together.

Dr. Jane Granskog shared on how we are deeply connected with our environment and each other.  She helped us to explore the role of culture in creating healthy connections.

 

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Celebrating change

Have you ever had a time when you anticipated the worst, only to discover a dramatic change for good?  I see it regularly with families.  People fighting one week often change to become peaceful, loving, and productive. How does this happen?  I believe they have learned to tap into what I call the fives C’s of Celebrating change:  Character, Commitment, Connection, Commincation, and Co-creative solutions.  Read more about these five C’s in the October Newsletter and listen in to our lively discussion on how they apply to our lives.  Just press the button to listen to the teleconference below.

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Creating Environments of Harmony

Over the last fifty years, the amount of material items in the United States has more than doubled. At the same time the divorce rate has also doubled, crime has more than tripled, and we have soaring rates of depression. Research shows that once our basic needs are met, more stuff does not make us any happier. Actually in can make you feel increasingly overwhelmed, powerless, and depressed.

One way to move beyond the challenge of stuff is to simplify your life by getting rid and redistributing your stuff. Listen in to our teleconference on “Creating Environments of Harmony.” Samantha Shields, a creative energy optimizer, gave valuable insights on the challenges and tips to make your home more harmonious and livable. I shared my insights on the impact on our relationships and what is needed for healthy development. Then anthropologist, Dr. Jane Granskog, shared information on characteristics of societies that have found sustainable ways of living over the centuries.  Enjoy, it will broaden your perspective and give you many insights for moving beyond the challenge of stuff.

 

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"No Sweat" Public Speaking - Interview with Fred E. Miller

PUBLIC SPEAKING is most people's greatest fear. Some fear it more than dying! So says Fred E. Miller, author of his just published book, No Sweat Public Speaking. Fred's top strength of authenticity shows up in his down to earth style.  Listen to hear how his practical know-how and sense of humor can help you build your confidence for speaking.  

Fred Miller is an author, speaker, and coach.  He is a past president of his chapter of Toastmasters and has found, over many years in business, that speaking opportunities are business opportunities. His ideas will help you to learn how to develop, practice, and deliver a "Knock Your Socks off Presentation" with "No Sweat! 
Listen to this interview and check out his book at  http://nosweatpublicspeaking.com.

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"Catching Happiness" - Interview with Barbara Altman

Come and explore an approach to growth that rejects pathologizing termonology in favor of a language of hope, individual character strengths, and personal longings directed toward meaningful goals. In this conference call, I interviewed Barbara Altman, author of the book Cry Depression, Celebrate Recovery.

As a child, Barbara dreamed of earning a degree in music and becoming a concert pianist.  Instead, at age 16, she was called into the principal’s office.  The principal was concerned that Barbara might be "schizophrenic."  Come and learn how her strengths in music, love of learning, persistence, and a caring community helped her transform herself from a diagnosis of illness to health.  She now serves as a deeply valued contributor to the community.

 

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Strength Based Co-Creativity - Interview with Craig Caesar

Creating change takes many different strategies and styles.  Different people have different strengths. If there is an area where you are weak, find others in that area that are strong.  For example, I am weak in technology.  I was most grateful when I found a colleague in my local area, Craig Caesar, to help me with my website.  I discovered that we shared common values and interest in the community.  Rather than a top down, “find the expert” approach, he uses strengths of creativity to develop a co-creative approach.  He helped me to better use my skills and resources while he provided invaluable consultation on the design and technology to best meet my needs.  

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